Good Blog Titles are short, yet still descriptive. How about "Hi, I'm back"

I almost didn't write this blog as I was only greeted with an error code every time I tried to post this, but here I go again. I'm back on the blogging front. I don't know what compelled me too, but I decided it would be a nice start to the new week. I browsed the Internet earlier and found a variety of different websites that actually did blogs. I tried a few out including one where you didn't "blog", no. you "blerged". But in the end this blog doesn't compare to all the rest. It's easy, simple and just great to jot my feelings down onto. I wouldn't want to delve into a more troubling website.

So anyways, enough of me babbling. Recently I haven't been doing a great amount. I've been out and about with my friends and just trying to enjoy the summer holidays. Even though they haven't officially begun yet but that will commence in around a week or so. I have a few plans coming up which should be rather good and I'm looking forward to them. A friend has gone away this week and I do miss him quite a bit, and he only left today..silly really but still the feeling is true so I'll be spending my week trying to occupy myself until he returns :) I also start my new job on Wednesday, finally I'm going to earn my living in this household and oddly it feels pretty marvellous. It's at the Marsh Maize Maze by the way if any of you were wondering and if you're not familiar with this, It's basically a Maze. I know that doesn't sound very cool, but believe me it is :)

Today's "theme of the blog" is going to be something a little heart warming. Love. I just watched the Notebook and I think it a beautiful story line. Now because of the amazing work of the directors and writers of the film I am soon to be delving into the Novel by Nicolas Sparks. The storyline is beautiful and although very dramatised and unreal it could happen however far fetched it may seem. It's odd. Love. Billions of people around the world will use that word every single day. Heck, I have. Probably a couple of times. But why do people love each other? Why do certain people fall for certain others? Hm. Well, they can do it for the right, or the wrong reasons. The right consisting of the below:

Here, people fall in love because they want to offer someone something good that they have. They want to be with someone not as to depend on him or her but to share their life with them. They have something good to offer and they want something good in return. They want to spend time with someone not because they are scared to be alone but because they enjoy the other person’s company. They are not in the relationship with closed eyes but open eyes. They can see all; the good and bad happening, and they are ignoring the bad because they are scared to be alone, or because they feel embarrassed that it’s happening to them. Being in love is about giving and receiving what is good. Please, underline the word good. Most people miss this point. A lot of people love the idea of being in love but not the actual fact. If many people understand the real reason of being in love and what being in love is, there would be less divorce, heartbreaks, suicides, violence and anything else that is related to bad breakups or bad relationships.

And the wrong...

In order to be in love, you have to be in love with someone. And this is where the trouble arises. Because some people love the idea of being in love so much, they end up falling in love with the first person that is a little bit nice to them. They don’t take their time to know the person. And even if the person shows signs of hurting them in the future, they ignore the signs. They are more concerned about being with someone, than being with someone who really loves and cares about them. It takes a long time to know a really good person but it only takes a short time to know a bad person. A good person is there but you just don’t notice because you are too busy looking everywhere else other than next to you. A bad person is at a far distance, all you have to do is look up and they will come over to you. A lot of people (girls especially) are scared of being alone. Thus they always end up falling for the wrong person because their logic mind is clouded with the desire to be with someone, anybody that shows interest in them. They don’t assess the person. They don’t care about his looks, what he does for a living, his interests and future plans. They just want to be loved.

If you want something good, you should be willing to offer something good..
We live in a society now where we spend a lot of time asking ‘what can you give me?’ rather than asking ‘what will I give you?’

Well, now that's over and done with. I hope that has shed a little light on you guys. The weather is getting better lately and has definitely improved. Summer is now well under weigh and I've already been in the sea several times. It's not the warmest experience but it is one of the nicest. Make the most of your summer fellow bloggers. I'm not entirely sure when I'll be next blogging, maybe tomorrow but then I could be busy. But I'll try :)

If you get without giving, you are most likely to lose what you get..